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KizlarSoruyor, Explained for Publishers

KizlarSoruyor is a Turkish social Q&A network where people ask very direct questions about love, image, money, social life, sex, career, family, and self-confidence, and then get blunt answers from other users. It started as the Turkish branch of GirlsAskGuys, launched locally in 2011, and scaled into a mainstream on-platform culture with millions of visitors per month and hundreds of thousands of posts and interactions daily in Turkey. In public reporting, the founders said the Turkish-language version alone was already drawing around 9 million unique visitors monthly by 2015, and later coverage in Turkish press has described 15+ million monthly unique visitors, 60+ million monthly pageviews, and peak concurrency of more than 8,500 people online at once.

That level of activity matters because this isn’t a niche forum. It’s a national habit. People in Turkey, mostly 18–34 (about 65% in that range according to internal platform stats reported in local media), log in at night — especially 21:00–22:00 Turkey time — and talk about what’s really happening in their lives. They stay for a long time. In 2019 data released by the platform, visitors spent a combined 2.7 million hours, generated 150,000 daily posts, and kept a constant live audience in the thousands.

For a publisher, that tells you two things. First, this crowd is emotionally open and looking for real answers right now, not abstract “content.” Second, if you give them something useful and honest, they will click and they will keep reading. When that click lands on a fast, mobile-first page that immediately delivers what you promised in the thread and then offers one obvious next step, you have not just traffic — you have repeatable traffic. Contextual monetization like Adclicks can sit next to that first actionable block as supportive detail, instead of interrupting the first screen.

Who the Audience Is (And Why They Click)

The core KizlarSoruyor audience is young adults in Turkey, slightly more women than men (about 56% women, 44% men, per platform stats cited in Turkish coverage), but men are absolutely present and vocal. The site also runs parallel male-targeted branding (“erkeklersoruyor”-style positioning) and leans into gendered takes: “girls ask guys,” “guys ask girls,” and everyone reacts.

But it’s not just flirting talk. People ask about jealousy, heartbreak, abortion, hair removal, job interviews, housing costs, mental health dips, who pays on the first date, whether a boyfriend is cheating, how to hide something from parents, how to move abroad, whether crypto is a scam, what to do if your boss is crossing lines, and how to survive university debt. The voice is personal and raw. Answers are fast, often judgmental, sometimes kind, and almost always specific. That emotional directness is why this crowd will follow a link to your site: they want an answer they can use tonight.

This is where a publisher can win. If your site can give the answer in the first screen — “Here’s exactly what to text back,” “Here’s what the law actually says about severance,” “Here’s what this skincare ingredient really does on a Turkish budget,” “Here’s what to expect in a student visa interview” — you’re a fit for the platform. If your page wastes the first screen on branding or a wall of fluff, you’re dead. Once the core answer is visible, you can introduce supporting monetization. This is where Adclicks works: as a calm, relevant unit near the concrete solution, not as a pop-up demanding attention.

Culture: Honesty, Drama, Proof

The tone inside KizlarSoruyor is not polite corporate problem-speak. It’s “my boyfriend said this, is he lying,” “I hate my body today, talk to me,” “My salary is X, is that normal,” “Is this product trash or legit,” “I want to move to Germany, is it impossible,” “What’s the worst date you had,” and “Show me how to stop feeling humiliated about this.” People share screenshots, past messages, pay stubs, and receipts. That is a gift to publishers because you don’t have to guess the pain point — they say it out loud.

The site architecture supports that confessional style. Posts are questions or “Bence” posts (mini-essays / opinions). Users respond publicly under their handle or anonymously as “Gizli Üye” (“Hidden Member”), and replies get voted up. There’s a visible reputation / level system called Xper, which rewards posting, answering, adding detail, and engaging. High-Xper users get status labels like “Fenomen” and “Yoda,” and they get surfaced to everyone else. The result is a constant churn of fresh, high-friction topics and emotional storylines.

Because of this, you cannot show up sounding like a press release. You have to answer the problem like a friend who has been there. Then — and only then — you earn the right to say, “if you want the full script / checklist / step plan, here’s a link.” When the user lands, your page must respect the same intimacy. This is also when Adclicks can safely exist: the ad block should feel like “more help in this lane,” not like a generic shopping banner.

Traffic Shape, Timing, and Reach

Public reporting and platform statements paint KizlarSoruyor as high-volume Turkish traffic with national reach, not just Istanbul and Ankara. They’ve claimed 400,000–500,000 daily visitors, 9 million unique monthly visitors in the Turkish version as far back as 2015, and later 15 million+ monthly uniques, 60 million pageviews a month, and 150,000 daily posts. Peak usage is nighttime Turkey time, especially 21:00–22:00, and mobile usage is huge — the platform highlights its iOS and Android apps and tracks in-app “active users.”

What this means for you is that the audience is available in large volume at predictable hours, and they come in scrolling mode, not research mode. You are not trying to “educate the market.” You are trying to catch someone, at 21:30, who is fighting with their boyfriend or panicking about rent, and deliver a usable next move. If you can do that in under five seconds, you will get the tap.

Your landing page should respect low-friction night scrolling. Use large text, short paragraphs, and fast load. Make the first block an immediate answer with no paywall and no registration. Then offer one action: “copy this text,” “use this calculator,” “download this script,” “check this checklist.” This is where you can position Adclicks to the right or just below that action, so it looks like “related help” and not like an obstacle. When the ad experience is framed as “more of what you’re already doing,” users tolerate it — and return.

The Rules Around Links (And Why They Matter)

KizlarSoruyor lets you post outbound links, but not everyone can. The platform uses Xper levels to control features. According to the help center and user guidance: only Xper Level users can post “tıklanabilir link,” meaning a clickable link. Below that level, your link text won’t go live as a tap-to-go URL, and you also can’t send private messages yet. Higher levels unlock more: media attachments, anonymous posting, adult-topic posting, direct messages, and link sharing.

That gate is there to stop spam. The site’s agreement bans using the service to advertise or promote commercial offers without permission. It bans mass-messaging members with offers, asks you not to recruit people off-site for money or sales, and reserves the right to kill your account if you act like an ad channel. The platform even says it may edit or alter posts for clarity or compliance.

What this means in practice: You cannot just drop “visit my site now!!!” all over KizlarSoruyor. You have to earn level, answer like a human, and then link in a way that feels like, “If you need the full script, I wrote it up here.” When they click, your page must instantly deliver that script and not bait-and-switch into signup, pop-ups, or autoplay. After that script is visible, contextual ads like Adclicks can sit beside it, because at that point the visitor has already gotten value and is calmer.

What Kind of Publisher Can Actually Convert This Audience

Relationship and social-dynamics publishers are a natural fit. KizlarSoruyor is full of “What do I say?” “Is this normal?” “Does he love me or am I stupid?” content. If your site can give short scripts: how to apologize without groveling, how to call out cheating without starting a war, how to flirt without sounding desperate, how to say “no” safely — you are solving live pain in this audience.

Body, beauty, and self-image content is also a match. A lot of questions are “Should I feel ugly about this,” “How do I fix this fast,” “Which product works and which is scam?” You can build fast, screenshot-friendly guides that say “Here’s what actually works on a normal budget in Turkey,” and position the first answer above the fold. The next block can invite: “Want full routines, product checklist, and budget math?” and link deeper. That deeper block is where Adclicks can sit, because you’re already in “show me options” mode, not “rescue me immediately” mode.

Career, money, and moving-abroad publishers also perform well. People ask about salaries, visas, Europe/Germany migration, interview answers, and side income. They want straight talk. If you can provide a clean, up-to-date explainer that says, “Here is how that process works in Turkey right now, and here is what they will ask you,” you get instant credibility. The first screen on your landing page should restate the exact question from KizlarSoruyor and then answer it in plain Turkish (or plain Turkish plus English gloss if it’s an immigration topic). After that, you can layer optional tools like salary calculators, CV wording generators, or visa prep checklists. Those tool blocks are natural homes for Adclicks because they behave like “related resources,” not random ads

How to Talk (Voice, Tone, Friction)

You cannot write like a brand. You have to write like someone who actually lived the situation or sat next to a friend who lived it. “Here’s what I said when my boss pushed me to stay late” will always beat “Employees should consider establishing professional boundaries in the workplace.” The community rewards blunt language and lived texture. That’s why questions pull in so many answers: people feel like they’re getting the truth.

Your landing page should keep that voice. First block: the promise. Second block: the script, the checklist, the steps. Third block: one next action (“Use this tonight,” “Copy this exact line,” “Say this at the visa window”). Only then do you ask the reader to explore deeper with you. If you flip that order — if you talk about yourself first — you’ll lose them, and they will absolutely say so publicly.

Adclicks works when it does not interrupt that first emotional payoff. If it appears like a “related help” card next to the second or third block, it feels like you’re extending support instead of cashing in on panic.

Landing Page Patterns That Earn Saves

When someone from KizlarSoruyor taps your link, they are not browsing for entertainment. They are looking for permission, language, or clarity. Your first screen has to deliver it. Use a headline that literally mirrors the question they clicked on: “Erkek arkadaşıma bunu nasıl söyleyeyim utanmadan?” or “Almanya vizesi için ilk görüşmede ne soruyorlar?” Put the answer right under it. No scroller bait, no modal blocking the text.

Under that first answer, offer one thing they can take away: a text they can copy, a checklist they can screenshot, a short script they can repeat. Make it screenshot-friendly. KizlarSoruyor runs heavily on mobile, and people will absolutely screenshot your answer and paste it back into the Q&A thread. That’s how you get recurring traffic.

After the screenshot block, create a “What to do next” module. This is where you can place Adclicks beside your module, because now the visitor is calmer and considering next steps — more tips, related routines, legal detail, budget breakdowns, templates. The ad unit feels like “more next steps,” not like noise.

Timing and Follow-Up (When You Drop Links)

KizlarSoruyor usage spikes at night, especially 21:00–22:00 Turkey time, when people are home, scrolling, and talking. The platform itself highlighted that window, along with the fact that tens of thousands of app users and thousands of concurrent web users are online together.

That means you should plan to post clarifying answers, with a link, in those windows. The correct posture is not “read my blog.” It’s “Here’s exactly what I said when this happened to me. If you want the full script, I wrote it up here.” The link should point to a page where the first block repeats the wording from your post. This one-to-one match is what keeps you from being flagged as spam or self-promo. It feels like continuing the conversation, not hijacking it.

After posting, don’t fight in the thread. Answer once, politely, clearly, and leave. If someone challenges you, you can clarify, but avoid turning it into an argument. KizlarSoruyor moderators rewrite titles, remove posts, and suspend accounts if they think you’re using the platform as an ad pipe. They also keep logs and say they’ll take action if you violate rules (especially around unsolicited commercial promotion).

Risk, Safety, and Fit

KizlarSoruyor is 18–34 heavy, but not exclusively. There’s younger presence and a lot of very intimate talk. You absolutely cannot run anything that feels predatory, exploitative, or manipulative around romance, sex, or money. Turkish law also bans undisclosed advertising and “örtülü reklam,” meaning hidden ads. The site reflects that in its anti-solicitation rules. If you look like you’re trying to secretly sell, you are violating both platform rules and national ad disclosure norms.

To stay on the right side of both, think of yourself as publishing help, not pushing offers. Your posts should feel like “I’ve been in this mess, here’s what worked,” and your landing pages should feel like “Here’s the plan, step 1, step 2, step 3.” If you monetize with Adclicks, present it as context and keep it physically near the helpful block, not splashed across the top like a billboard. That presentation looks like you’re funding the help, not charging admission for it.

If you stay respectful, you can build a quiet repeat audience. If you get greedy, you will get banned and possibly blasted publicly in front of everyone at peak hour.

Putting It All Together

KizlarSoruyor is not a place where you “drive funnel.” It is a place where you solve someone’s immediate emotional or practical problem, in their voice, on their timeline. If you do that, they will come to your site, they will screenshot your work, and they will carry it back into the network for you. That is compounding traffic.

Your job is to design landing pages that feel like safe relief: fast load, direct answer, screenshot block, next step. After that, you can layer gentle monetization. Adclicks belongs there — as part of the “what next” area — not before the first useful sentence.

Action Plan (10 steps)

  1. Pick three lanes that show up nonstop on KizlarSoruyor: relationships/jealousy, body & image, and money/work/visa. Watch real questions in each lane.
  2. Write one “answer page” per lane. Headline = the question, word for word. First paragraph = the answer in plain Turkish.
  3. Put the real script, checklist, or wording the user needs right under that first paragraph. Make it screenshot-friendly.
  4. Under the script, offer one clear next step (“Copy this apology text,” “Practice this interview answer,” “Ask for this number at the visa desk”).
  5. Place Adclicks beside that next-step block so it looks like related help, not a paywall.
  6. Create an account on KizlarSoruyor. Do not spam. Earn Xper points by answering honestly so you reach Level 3+ and unlock clickable links.
  7. Post at peak time (21:00–22:00 Turkey time). Give a short, empathetic answer and include: “I wrote the full wording here,” with your link.
  8. Leave. Do not argue. The site bans commercial harassment and can edit or remove posts if you look like an ad.
  9. Watch which answer pages keep readers on-screen and lead to a second click. Expand those lanes first.
  10. Refresh each page as laws, prices, or social expectations shift. Stamp the update date clearly at the top. This builds trust, keeps screenshots circulating, and keeps Adclicks revenue steady without needing to push harder.

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